Cinie

Did Feminism Kill Macho?

In Barack Obama, Hillary Clinton, Politics on July 3, 2009 at 1:39 pm

f11c8aea-3922-4677-915a-b93cf1e89fe7.widec terry o'neillOn June 20, the National Organization for Women elected a new board in what has been characterized in some circles as something of a coup d’etat.   Calling it a coup is something of a mischaracterization however, since the old board was out anyway, with the former president, Kim Gandy, stepping down due to term limits.  Yet, the victors were successful in labeling their opponents as “more of the same” and continuation of the status quo, due to Gandy’s support for the slate, and endorsement of its candidate for president, Latifa Lyles, who served under Gandy as Membership VP.  The incoming slate, headed by Terry O’Neill, former VP of membership before said office became something of a black woman’s glass ceiling, has promised to take the floundering organization in a new direction by returning it to its roots.  Stay with me, now, it gets better.

On June 22, Foreign Policy posted an article entitled, The Death of Macho, discussed this morning on CNN’s AMfix, which posits that the testosterone-fueled patriarchy has so screwed the world, especially economically, that they have basically engineered their own demise as a power structure. Which means women are now poised to take the lead by stepping into the void and dutifully, and competently, and, as should be expected, clean up the boyz’ mess, thereby saving the world while effectively emasculating John Wayne.  Or, something like that.  Of course, the article’s author, Reihan Salam, doesn’t credit feminism for the demise of machismo, he blames the recession, which he terms a “he-cession,” due to its devastating effects on male employment opportunities.

However, though unspoken, one cannot escape the specter of the effects of feminism in all this, and, Salam does not, even though, he truly doesn’t seem to recognize his error:

The era of male dominance is coming to an end.

Seriously.

For years, the world has been witnessing a quiet but monumental shift of power from men to women. Today, the Great Recession has turned what was an evolutionary shift into a revolutionary one. The consequence will be not only a mortal blow to the macho men’s club called finance capitalism that got the world into the current economic catastrophe; it will be a collective crisis for millions and millions of working men around the globe.

Well, gee, Reihan, do you really think “evolution” accounts for this “monumental shift of power?”  Are you actually trying to sell the “men naturally raised their own consciousnesses” snake oil without a condom?  Therein lies the fallacy of Salam’s otherwise provocative argument; according to him, we’ve arrived at this crisis point where women must now step into the breech to save men, and the entire world, from themselves, with no prior input into the equation from women at all.  In the opening paragraphs of his rather whiny and fear-laden article, he manages to take the sort of “perpetrators as victims” position so common to the “reverse discrimination” crowd, which basically amounts to, “I never got my turn to screw the masses like I was supposed to, no fair!”

The death throes of macho are easy to find if you know where to look. Consider, to start, the almost unbelievably disproportionate impact that the current crisis is having on men—so much so that the recession is now known to some economists and the more plugged-in corners of the blogosphere as the “he-cession.” More than 80 percent of job losses in the United States since November have fallen on men, according to the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics. And the numbers are broadly similar in Europe, adding up to about 7 million more out-of-work men than before the recession just in the United States and Europe as economic sectors traditionally dominated by men (construction and heavy manufacturing) decline further and faster than those traditionally dominated by women (public-sector employment, healthcare, and education). All told, by the end of 2009, the global recession is expected to put as many as 28 million men out of work worldwide.

Salam goes on for eight pages laying out his case that the current economic crisis has provided the tipping point from patriarchy to not quite matriarchy, but whatever you call a non-gender based, equally integrated society.  Though it would take too long to quibble with all the quibble-worthy points raised in the argument, what’s most interesting to me is the glaring omission of the impact of the efforts of women’s rights advocates.  Frankly, it’s stunning.  The closest he comes to talking about feminism, which is not very close at all, is near the end of the article:

The he-cession is creating points of agreement among people not typically thought of as kindred spirits, from behavioral economists to feminist historians. But while many blame men for the current economic mess, much of the talk thus far has focused on the recession’s effects on women. And they are real. Women had a higher global unemployment rate before the current recession, and they still do. This leads many to agree with a U.N. report from earlier this year: “The economic and financial crisis puts a disproportionate burden on women, who are often concentrated in vulnerable employment É and tend to have lower unemployment and social security benefits, and have unequal access to and control over economic and financial resources.”

So, though Salam doesn’t blame women for men’s untenable current global position on the bottom, he doesn’t give us any credit for demanding our turn on top, either, instead, blaming everything “penis competition.”  And, his contention that the new economic situation will cause an “evolutionary shift”…whatever, whatever, the likes of which the world has never before experienced, does not take into account the very real possibility of a similar, and likely much bloodier, pre-Biblical shift from ancient matriarchy to current patriarchy, aspects of which are currently being discussed in Murphy’s PUMA Pac post, Venus Envy.  One needs only a little imagination and common sense to consider the similarities between Biblically mandated, ritual male circumcision near birth with the severance of the umbilical cord, and that the adoption of such a tradition might well be an attempt to co-opt the natural, God-given evidence of feminine reproductive connection to the divine.  From the tradition of men in dresses spreading incense and feeding the masses bread, to speculation that the Temple of Solomon was an architectural representation of the womb, as is, supposedly the nave of a Catholic church, to the symbolism that baptism as a “new birth” compares to the reality of breaking water signaling a new arrival, it’s pretty easy to make the case that the elevation of Yahweh came at the expense of Asherah.  The cult of Isis/Mary had to die before the elevation of the cult of Horus/Jesus.  As a side note, this article, linked to by Bostonboomer at The Confluence, claims evidence that early European cave paintings were likely done by women, while there has long been speculation that early human advances such as bread and beer making, irrigation, pottery, etc., are feminine inventions.

So, what does all this have to do with NOW’s latest election?   Maybe a lot, maybe nothing.  But, it seems to me, this current Salam article is just another symptom of the lab-created disease of re-Cleaverization, or, returning women to their rightful place as keepers of hearth and home, happily performing their Godly assigned duties, properly attired in heels and pearls.  And, if we refuse to go along all the way, despite the best efforts of the metrosexual pretendident and his formerly independent, now Mom-In-Chief prop Stepford wife, and all the other paid factions dedicated to nullifying the power of testicularly threatening Hillary/Palin-ites, the least we can do, as nurturing moms, wives, and sisters is empathize with the poor, suffering, ego-smashed men we’re supposed to prop up, and cut them some slack.  Yet, the article is being presented as proof that the barely mentioned feminist movement is no longer necessary, and thus, no longer relevant to the discussion.

Which brings us to the relevance of NOW and the feminist movement as a whole.  Has it outlived its usefulness?  Do younger women need the protection of a “sisterhood” in the world of today that they have to negotiate?  Do the old rules still apply?   And, in a possibly tangential question, yet relevant to me, where does that leave black and other minority women whose societal oppression and subjugation as women has often come at the hands of other women?

While it is easy for the new slate of representatives at NOW to talk the inclusiveness talk, it’s harder for them to make the claim that they actually walk the diversity walk.  Long criticized as an organization of and for middle class, middle aged white women, replacing one middle aged white woman with another as president does nothing to change that.  Laying the blame for the organization’s membership woes at the feet of the outgoing membership VP, without consideration of any other factors, and using it as ammunition against her, doesn’t help.  The truth seems to be that in the last four years, it might not have mattered much who was in charge, and, it will be interesting to see how plumped the rolls become under the new administration.  In the end though, it might not matter much.  The perception of NOW as a white women’s organization might be it’s downfall, no matter what they do.  And, if that doesn’t do it, the tendency to label the younger generation of feminists, regardless of color, as mindless Obots, might be the final coffin nail.  Labeling such support as intrinsically foolish, without examining it in light of past feminist successes, seems short-sighted in my opinion.  In reality, today’s young women find themselves navigating a world rife with evidence of yesterday’s feminist efforts, good and bad.  Things they take for granted are the result of hard-fought, and hard won, victories of their mothers, grandmothers, etc., and they know that.   Quite simply, their current struggles and concerns, whatever they may be, need to be examined in light of their inherited reality, not dismissed as rejection and repudiation of the same.

In other words, if feminism has indeed played a role in the “death of macho,” if, indeed “macho” is dead or dying, how does that impact the perspective of young women of today?  Might it not contribute to their willingness to embrace the illusion of inclusiveness cleverly manipulated to do just that?  And, could those manipulators be using the “new reality” in an attempt to nullify and reverse the effect of the women’s movement?  If so, is the current and future movement best served by re-asserting the old dynamic, or, by turning over the reins to those likely to be most affected?  Should the old guard lead, or advise?  If the young women today turn away and totally reject the feminine influence of the past, rightly or wrongly, what will be the likely impact?   After all, if one’s daughter is obviously being seduced by a clever Lothario, it is not likely to be beneficial to the situation for the mother to step in and try to take her daughter’s place.

As a woman not prone to call herself a feminist for many reasons, I find myself in a curiously uncomfortable “in, but not, of” position, partially because it seems to me that feminist organizations are not based on equality among women, but on equality with men.  As in, white women should be equal to white men at the top of the food chain, everybody else fall in line according to their current ranking in the pecking order.  I also disagree with the notion that “inclusion” means the embrace of conservative, pro-life factions, since choosing to be so means to me that one chooses not to be included.  Being pro life is a choice denoting opting out of the movement that seeks to guarantee the right to choose, imo.  One can be committed to not exercising her right to abort without dedicating her life to eliminating the right to make an alternative choice for other women, which would of course, make her pro-choice.  That being said, I’ve been watching the recent developments with an interested, yet simultaneously dispassionate, eye.   Seems to me, rejection of concerted efforts to modernize the organization’s internet capacity, especially in favor of more traditional methods, and to dismiss those tactics and techniques as the province of Obamania, is to throw the proverbial baby down the drain of the dirty bathwater.  Obama does not own internet organizing, and all who champion those methods are not on his payroll.

Though I have no easy answers, the questions seem to me to be not only compelling, but downright crucial.  While women fight amongst themselves for relevance, the terms of the larger debate, and its potential consequences, are laid out rather succintly in the last paragraph of Salam’s “Death of Macho:”

Indeed, it’s now fair to say that the most enduring legacy of the Great Recession will not be the death of Wall Street. It will not be the death of finance. And it will not be the death of capitalism. These ideas and institutions will live on. What will not survive is macho. And the choice men will have to make, whether to accept or fight this new fact of history, will have seismic effects for all of humanity—women as well as men.

  1. ps: believe me, k?

    just know I mean what I say.

  2. Cinie, i meant what i said. so stop.

    my masters is from here, and i want you to see okay?

    at RDs I just learned hugely from donna darko and seriously in the comments on that thread.

    Cinie, I mean what i say.

    No kidding.

    Seriously.

    I am straight white fem from 70s second wave and we are having a discussion on that at my place.

    I am a therapist?

    So everybody matters.

    hug.s.

    you are a writer Cinie,

    high level.

    so is RD.

    just trust me when i say that, K?

  3. I realize in my heart-of-hearts what your reasoning was for posting the Maude thing. However the 3rd of 3 was just about as enlightening, imo.

    If NOW reverses trend and will start acting like it is for women’s rights it may grow again. One thing it could do is to call out Barky on FOCA and remind him of promises he made. That would be an improvement.

    • NOW’s problems are internal, Fredster. When one faction declares war on another and claims a victorious “coup,” that organization is in serious trouble. Considering the margin of victory and the vitriol involved, NOW faces the prospect of further diminishing its dwindling membership by as much as half. Even if it manages to avoid such large scale defection, unless and until serious steps are taken to heal the serious rift, NOW is facing a perilous future.

  4. Laying the blame for the organization’s membership woes at the feet of the outgoing membership VP, without consideration of any other factors, and using it as ammunition against her, doesn’t help.

    What are the other factors? And if it isn’t the fault of the Veep for membership, whose fault is it? After all, wasn’t her title veep for membership?

    BTW Cinie, you should have had the other 2 parts of the Maude episode; it was hysterical!

    • Why did O’Neill leave the slate in 04? How common is it for that to happen? Was the handwriting on the wall then that the membership rolls were unsustainable? How many “boutique” women’s organizations splintered off during that time, if any? Why? Are we talking lack of recruitment, or bleeding members? If the latter, why the abandonment? Was the organization as a whole ineffective or irrelevant? As I said, it will be interesting to see if the trend will be arrested and turned around, and how.

      And, I didn’t post the other two parts because my goal wasn’t entertainment, but enlightenment. Glad you liked it, though.

  5. I am goig to have toread this so many times and then try and do justice to what you have said.

    Whew.

    And figure out how to be that much of a pen.

    But?

    Whew,

    Cinie, I am being straight on that pen you have.

    • C’mon, VB, you’re the writer, not me. I’m just trying to stick my two cents into conversations where it’s not always welcome. That’s why I created my own little world. I should be so lucky as to write and think on your level.

  6. Oh Cinie, the way you write. I’ve said it before but…I would really like to write to this piece of yours by quoting you. I’m really serious. I have so many thoughts right now and Happy 4th, too, but given our differing orientations I would love to speak alonside this piece? As a white hetero?

    Serious on this. I really want to talk about feminism and how it looked post Roe. I’m currently really getting serious about what it all meant to be feminist in 1973 as a preeteen?

    I have so much to spill out and this piece of writing?

    WOW. Just wow.

    wow.

    I hope you won’t mind? Serious?

    hug.

    I’m not sure who you are but boy do you weild that pen.

    After reading Rd and this today? This is a HUGE discussion.

    me!

    boy can you write.

    I’m bowing to that pen.

    • I’m flattered beyond belief, VB. Of course you can do anything you want with this piece. Thank you.

  7. Morning Cinie – Got back on Google re: Mark J. Perry guy. He’s a University Professor from Flint who runs a blog called Carpie Diem. Seems he’s the guy who came up with the “UAW employee makes $73 per hour” bunk that was swiftly passed off by the MSM as fact, then tersly corrected by people smarter than him. He also got heckled soundly for his stats about the recession and housing. If your interested, just google “Mark J. Perry and idiot” and you get lots and lots of hits. P.S. Seems this 80%/man-cession hype going viral is really about how unemployed guys are having a hard time getting dates i.e. laid. Poor babies!!!

    • Yeah, that’s what I meant about the many quibble-worthy points in Salam’s article. There’s lots more, but I didn’t want to get too caught up in his “reality.”

  8. Where the heck is the “80% of unemployed are men” thing coming from, anyway. Tried to google it, seems to be a pattern of some “economics expert” named Mark J. Perry who analyzed April Bureau of Labor stats, gone viral. Did the manufacturing industry just skip over laying off the vast numbers of women who work the line? What about all the women who work in construction, and construction related industries? Somebody needs to look over the top of their glasses at this “experts” numbers and see if he made some silly sexist assumptions

  9. We need “firebrands” like Betty Friedan and Bella Abzug to shake some backbone and sense into this current generation of “feminists”.

    Don’t see any on the horizon.

  10. Point taken, Cine. Thanks for this excellent post.

  11. I don’t totally disagree with your points re: younger women and feminism, Freespirit. I see a similar dynamic with black Americans and the Civil Rights Movement. However, I just think it is not up to the children to raise themselves, so, there’s only so much blame they should be asked to assume. Their collective vulnerability to seduction is a failure on the part of the old guard who got complacent and took their eye off the ball. At this point, though, taking the ball back and inserting oneself in the game is likely not the most prudent, productive option. It’s a different game now. The history doesn’t change however, and it’s up to those who lived it to see to it that the new leaders carry it forward to the future.

  12. If feminism killed macho, I’m proud to call myself a feminist. I don’t think, however, feminism can take all the credit. Inherent in the concept of macho (at least as I define it) are the qualities of false pride, oppression of women, lack of insight, the need for constant ego stroking, and others. Those qualities cannot sustain indefinitely.

    Regarding NOW, that organization has much to make up for with regard to their lack of diversity, as well as their virtual silence as Hillary was subjected to gross sexism, and their total silence in defense of Sarah Palin.

    Cine, I understand your point about the younger feminists. However, having solicited the view points of quite a few of them, shortly after the election, I have to say, I’m not encouraged. There seemed to be a real deficit of knowledge about the struggles of women in years past, and a lack of understanding of the importance of electing women to government positions. I saw very little outrage among them regarding the treatment Hillary received. Most of them with whom I spoke were so impressed with the Obama rock star persona that they would have said little if Hillary had been stoned in the town square. Obviously, the young feminists will mature and gain a deeper understanding of life, of themselves, and of gender bias. No doubt, they will become increasingly less vulnerable to the charms of a pop star like Obama. At that time – in the not so distant future – I hope they will think back to 2008, and vow never again to remain silent when women are made the targets of sexism and misogyny. Obviously, not all young feminists were obots, but the vast majority of the ones with whom I spoke were very pro-Obama, and not terribly interesting in hearing about some of the sexism he demonstrated on numerous occasions during the election.

  13. Macho? Male dominance? Not in my home! i’ve been married 27 years and I realized long ago that I do not run dooky squat in my home. And guess what? I wouldn’t have it any other way!

  14. Macho may be dead, but like Michael Myers it will keep coming back.

  15. While macho may be dead, it seems as it was dying; it managed to take Sarah Palin and her office as Governor with it, and possibly the remainder of her political career .
    I have to admit at this moment I am inconsolable